Why you are not yourself

Admit it…

You think too much.

You wait too long.

You plan too much – and take too little action.

You often hold yourself back – and doubt everything,

you wish for clarity – but that’s exactly where the uncertainty begins.

Why is that?

Ready?

This is going to be intense!

Are you sitting down?

I’m serious.

Okay … at your own risk.

👉🏻 You haven’t been allowed to be yourself since childhood.

Because two essential things were trained out of you from day one:

1️⃣ The ability to interpret the world for yourself, and

2️⃣ The ability to consciously direct your attention.

Not just from your parents – but from everyone who wanted to project their perspectives onto you…

– We don’t have time.

– You’re not allowed to put sand in your mouth.

– Look over here instead of there (and smile at the camera).

– And for crying out loud, we still don’t have any time!!!

It’s the little things that make the big problems. And your parents didn’t even know any better.

And even if you’ve always thought…

I had a happy childhood…

these two aspects ☝🏻 are crucial for a strong, grounded personality.

Why do you think so many people go through life with too little self-confidence and an exaggerated need for admiration?

Because the self of most people is a treasure trove of stories they’ve heard about themselves — but never truly experienced.

Maybe that’s why, back then, you didn’t look for a job that really suited you…

but instead chose one to compensate for your childhood pain — and maybe you’re still not truly an adult today.

Or – just as bad – you’re doing something that someone else chose for you, because even as a young adult you were lost in that treasure trove of stories about yourself.

It was the same for me: I found myself in a job that didn’t really fulfill me. Only the circumstances were okay.

Human Design offers tremendous help in getting to know yourself. It was also a game changer for me.

Human Design won’t tell you what to do or not to do, and it won’t beam you back into your childhood either.

But Human Design shows you who you truly are and who you’ve always been – from day one.

So that you can relax and unwind.

So that you can
decondition
yourself.

That’s why I’ve expanded my Human Design self-coaching course to include deconditioning and self-discovery.

Because there’s no way around recognizing and dissolving harmful conditioning in order to find your true calling and be fully yourself.

Get your course now and discover who you truly are.

Thank you for your attention!
Thomas

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