{"id":34236,"date":"2025-02-16T15:44:38","date_gmt":"2025-02-16T14:44:38","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/humandesign-berufsberatung.de\/why-you-are-not-yourself\/"},"modified":"2025-10-05T12:02:24","modified_gmt":"2025-10-05T10:02:24","slug":"why-you-are-not-yourself","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/humandesign-berufsberatung.de\/en\/why-you-are-not-yourself\/","title":{"rendered":"Why you are not yourself"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>[et_pb_section fb_built=&#8221;1&#8243; admin_label=&#8221;section&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;4.16&#8243; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221;][et_pb_row admin_label=&#8221;row&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;4.16&#8243; background_size=&#8221;initial&#8221; background_position=&#8221;top_left&#8221; background_repeat=&#8221;repeat&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221;][et_pb_column type=&#8221;4_4&#8243; _builder_version=&#8221;4.16&#8243; custom_padding=&#8221;|||&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221; custom_padding__hover=&#8221;|||&#8221;][et_pb_text _builder_version=&#8221;4.27.4&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221;]<\/p>\n<p class=\"false\">Admit it&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>You think too much.<\/p>\n<p class=\"false\">You wait too long.<\/p>\n<p class=\"false\">You plan too much \u2013 and take too little action.<\/p>\n<p class=\"false\">You often hold yourself back \u2013 and doubt everything,<\/p>\n<p class=\"false\">you wish for clarity \u2013 but that\u2019s exactly where the uncertainty begins.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Why is that?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Ready?<\/p>\n<p>This is going to be intense!<\/p>\n<p>Are you sitting down?<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m serious.<\/p>\n<p>Okay &#8230; at your own risk.<\/p>\n<p>\ud83d\udc49\ud83c\udffb <strong>You haven\u2019t been allowed to be yourself since childhood.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Because two essential things were trained <strong>out of you from day one:<\/strong><strong><br \/><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>1\ufe0f\u20e3 The ability to <strong>interpret the world for yourself<\/strong>, and<\/p>\n<p>2\ufe0f\u20e3 The ability <strong>to consciously direct your attention.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Not just from your parents \u2013 but from everyone who wanted to project their perspectives onto you&#8230;<\/p>\n<p><em class=\"false\">&#8211; We don\u2019t have time.<\/em><\/p>\n<p class=\"false\"><em class=\"false\">&#8211; You\u2019re not allowed to put sand in your mouth.<\/em><\/p>\n<p class=\"false\"><em class=\"false\">&#8211; Look over here instead of there (and smile at the camera).<\/em><\/p>\n<p class=\"false\"><em class=\"false\">&#8211; And for crying out loud, we still don\u2019t have any time!!!<\/em><\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s the little things that make the big problems. And your parents didn\u2019t even know any better. <\/p>\n<p>And even if you\u2019ve always thought&#8230;<\/p>\n<p><em class=\"false\">I had a happy childhood&#8230;<\/em><\/p>\n<p><strong>these two aspects<\/strong> \u261d\ud83c\udffb are crucial for a strong, grounded personality.<\/p>\n<p>Why do you think so many <em>people<\/em> go through life with <strong>too little self-confidence and an exaggerated need for admiration?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Because t<strong>he self<\/strong> of most people is a <em>treasure trove of stories<\/em> they\u2019ve heard about themselves \u2014 but never truly experienced.<\/p>\n<p>Maybe that\u2019s why, back then, you didn\u2019t look for <strong>a job that really suited you&#8230;<\/strong><\/p>\n<p class=\"false\">but instead chose one to compensate for your childhood pain \u2014 and maybe you\u2019re still not truly an adult today.<\/p>\n<p class=\"false\">Or \u2013 just as bad \u2013 you\u2019re doing something that someone else chose for you, because even <strong>as a young adult <\/strong>you were lost in that treasure trove of stories about yourself.<\/p>\n<p class=\"false\"><em class=\"false\">It was the same for me: I found myself in a job that didn\u2019t really fulfill me. Only the circumstances were okay. <\/em><\/p>\n<p><strong>Human Design<\/strong> offers tremendous help in <strong>getting to know yourself.<\/strong> It was also a game changer for me. <\/p>\n<p class=\"false\">Human Design won\u2019t tell you what to do or not to do, and it won\u2019t <em>beam you back<\/em> into your childhood either.<\/p>\n<p class=\"false\">But Human Design shows you <strong class=\"false\">who you truly are and who you\u2019ve always been \u2013 from day one.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>So that you can <strong>relax<\/strong> and <em>unwind.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>So that you can <strong><br \/>\n  <em>decondition<\/em><br \/>\n<\/strong> yourself.<\/p>\n<p>That\u2019s why I\u2019ve expanded my <a class=\"false\" href=\"https:\/\/humandesign-berufsberatung.de\/en\/human-design-coaching\/\">Human Design self-coaching course<\/a> to include <strong>deconditioning and self-discovery.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Because there\u2019s no way around recognizing and dissolving harmful conditioning <strong>in order to find your true calling and be fully yourself.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/humandesign-berufsberatung.de\/en\/human-design-coaching\/\"><strong class=\"false\">Get your course now and discover who you truly are.<\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Thank you for your attention!<br \/>Thomas<\/p>\n<p data-pm-slice=\"1 1 []\">[\/et_pb_text][et_pb_text _builder_version=&#8221;4.27.4&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221; locked=&#8221;off&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221;]<\/p>\n<p>More recent newsletters can be found <a href=\"https:\/\/humandesign-berufsberatung.de\/en\/newsletter-archive\/\">here<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>[\/et_pb_text][et_pb_text admin_label=&#8221;Fragen und Antworten im Kontext dieses Newsletters&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;4.27.4&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221; locked=&#8221;off&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221;]<\/p>\n<h2>Questions and answers about this newsletter<\/h2>\n<p>[\/et_pb_text][et_pb_accordion _builder_version=&#8221;4.27.4&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;22a21a12-b89f-457a-878a-3b4ad3369275&#8243; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221;][et_pb_accordion_item title=&#8221;What does deconditioning mean in Human Design?&#8221; open=&#8221;on&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;4.27.4&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221;]<\/p>\n<p>Deconditioning is the process of letting go of old imprints and beliefs that don\u2019t belong to your true self.<br \/><a href=\"https:\/\/humandesign-berufsberatung.de\/en\/free-human-design-chart\/\">Human Design<\/a> helps you recognize who you are by nature \u2013 and what are merely learned patterns.<\/p>\n<p>[\/et_pb_accordion_item][et_pb_accordion_item title=&#8221;How can Human Design help with self-discovery?&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;4.27.4&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221; open=&#8221;off&#8221;]<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/humandesign-berufsberatung.de\/en\/free-human-design-chart\/\">Human Design<\/a> reveals your authentic strengths, talents, and sources of energy.<br \/>This allows you to free yourself from external expectations and make decisions that truly align with you. <\/p>\n<p>[\/et_pb_accordion_item][et_pb_accordion_item title=&#8221;Why do so many people find it hard to be themselves?&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;4.27.4&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221; open=&#8221;off&#8221;]<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"734\" data-end=\"1010\">We were often taught as children to see the world through the eyes of others.<br \/>As a result, we lose touch with our own perception and shape our lives according to external expectations. <\/p>\n<p>[\/et_pb_accordion_item][et_pb_accordion_item title=&#8221;Can Human Design help you find the right career?&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;4.27.4&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221; open=&#8221;off&#8221;]<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"1012\" data-end=\"1271\">By showing you which activities align with your energy and fulfill you.<br \/>This way, you make decisions not out of lack or adaptation, but from your own strength. <\/p>\n<p>[\/et_pb_accordion_item][\/et_pb_accordion][\/et_pb_column][\/et_pb_row][\/et_pb_section]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Admit it&#8230; You think too much. 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