{"id":34148,"date":"2025-05-25T18:16:33","date_gmt":"2025-05-25T16:16:33","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/humandesign-berufsberatung.de\/there-is-no-right-decision\/"},"modified":"2025-10-10T14:10:31","modified_gmt":"2025-10-10T12:10:31","slug":"there-is-no-right-decision","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/humandesign-berufsberatung.de\/en\/there-is-no-right-decision\/","title":{"rendered":"There is no right decision!"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>[et_pb_section fb_built=&#8221;1&#8243; admin_label=&#8221;section&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;4.16&#8243; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221;][et_pb_row admin_label=&#8221;row&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;4.16&#8243; background_size=&#8221;initial&#8221; background_position=&#8221;top_left&#8221; background_repeat=&#8221;repeat&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221;][et_pb_column type=&#8221;4_4&#8243; _builder_version=&#8221;4.16&#8243; custom_padding=&#8221;|||&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221; custom_padding__hover=&#8221;|||&#8221;][et_pb_text _builder_version=&#8221;4.27.4&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221; hover_enabled=&#8221;0&#8243; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221; sticky_enabled=&#8221;0&#8243;]<\/p>\n<p class=\"false\" data-start=\"301\" data-end=\"374\">Do you also often find it hard to make decisions?<\/p>\n<p>You are not alone.<\/p>\n<p><br class=\"false\" data-start=\"403\" data-end=\"406\" \/>Many of my clients come to me for exactly that reason.<\/p>\n<p>Especially when it comes to important career decisions:<\/p>\n<p class=\"false\" data-start=\"530\" data-end=\"568\">\u2013 Should I quit my job?<\/p>\n<p>\u2013 Should I stay in the secure job?<\/p>\n<p>\u2013 Should I take the leap into <a href=\"https:\/\/humandesign-berufsberatung.de\/en\/human-design-business-development\/\">self-employment<\/a>?<\/p>\n<p>For <a href=\"https:\/\/humandesign-berufsberatung.de\/en\/how-generation-z-really-tick\/\">Generation Z<\/a>, the questions are more like:<\/p>\n<p>\u2013 Craft or office?<\/p>\n<p class=\"false\" data-start=\"720\" data-end=\"746\">\u2013 Apprenticeship or university?<\/p>\n<p class=\"false\" data-start=\"749\" data-end=\"776\">\u2013 Master\u2019s degree or direct entry into the job market?<\/p>\n<p>You can learn a lot about yourself and your calling in my <a href=\"https:\/\/humandesign-berufsberatung.de\/human-design-coaching\/\">Human Design self-coaching course<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p><br class=\"false\" data-start=\"870\" data-end=\"873\" \/>But in the end, YOU have to make a decision.<\/p>\n<p>And the worst thing you can do is:<\/p>\n<p>\u274c Hand over the responsibility \u2013 to parents, friends, or coaches.<\/p>\n<p class=\"false\" data-start=\"1044\" data-end=\"1082\">\u274c Making decisions with the mind.<\/p>\n<p class=\"false\" data-start=\"1085\" data-end=\"1129\">\u274c Believing there is <em>ONE right decision<\/em>.<\/p>\n<p class=\"false\">\n<p class=\"false\" data-start=\"1131\" data-end=\"1137\"><strong>Why?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Because the mind cannot make decisions. It can plan, analyze, structure \u2013 but that\u2019s it.<\/p>\n<p><br class=\"false\" data-start=\"1238\" data-end=\"1241\" \/>According to Human Design, it is the body (inner authority) that makes decisions.<\/p>\n<p><br class=\"false\" data-start=\"1283\" data-end=\"1286\" \/>It provides the energy for implementation.<\/p>\n<p><br class=\"false\" data-start=\"1327\" data-end=\"1330\" \/>And it does NOT tell you <em>right <\/em>or <em>wrong<\/em>, <strong>but rather<\/strong>&#8230;<\/p>\n<p><strong class=\"false\" data-start=\"1388\" data-end=\"1430\">F\u00fchlt es sich stimmig an \u2013 oder nicht?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>The outcome of a decision can never be predicted with certainty.<br class=\"false\" data-start=\"1497\" data-end=\"1500\" \/>But you can take responsibility:<\/p>\n<p class=\"false\" data-start=\"1545\" data-end=\"1569\">\ud83d\udc49 Trust your inner authority<br \/>\ud83d\udc49 Grow from experience<br \/>\ud83d\udc49 Act with self-determination<br \/>\ud83d\udc49 Inspire others<br \/>\ud83d\udc49 Motivate yourself<\/p>\n<p>Spontaneously, my own gut feeling says:<\/p>\n<p>The following poem, inspired by <em>Martin Walser<\/em>, fits perfectly here \u2013 slightly adapted.<\/p>\n<p>Let it sink in for a moment.<\/p>\n<p><strong class=\"false\" data-start=\"1781\" data-end=\"1826\">There is no right decision.<\/strong><br class=\"false\" data-start=\"1826\" data-end=\"1829\" \/>And no wrong one either.<br class=\"false\" data-start=\"1857\" data-end=\"1860\" \/>There are only decisions that move us forward:<br class=\"false\" data-start=\"1910\" data-end=\"1913\" \/>Either through what we achieve \u2013<br class=\"false\" data-start=\"1952\" data-end=\"1955\" \/>Or through what we learn along the way.<\/p>\n<p>Courage is not a prerequisite, but a result.<br class=\"false\" data-start=\"2046\" data-end=\"2049\" \/>We often believe we must first be brave.<br class=\"false\" data-start=\"2092\" data-end=\"2095\" \/>But courage doesn\u2019t show itself in thinking.<br class=\"false\" data-start=\"2131\" data-end=\"2134\" \/>It shows itself in walking.<\/p>\n<p>As soon as you recognize where you are right now,<br class=\"false\" data-start=\"2199\" data-end=\"2202\" \/>you are already further than many others.<br class=\"false\" data-start=\"2234\" data-end=\"2237\" \/>Then it\u2019s only about the next step.<br class=\"false\" data-start=\"2283\" data-end=\"2286\" \/>Not the big leap.<br class=\"false\" data-start=\"2308\" data-end=\"2311\" \/>Just the next possible step.<\/p>\n<p>And you know that one \u2013 very well.<\/p>\n<p>What comes next, no one knows for sure.<br class=\"false\" data-start=\"2422\" data-end=\"2425\" \/>Anyone who claims otherwise is selling certainty where none exists.<\/p>\n<p>Those who know the next step but do not take it<br \/>remain stuck out of fear.<\/p>\n<p>Yet this very step is your invitation to grow.<br class=\"false\" data-start=\"2632\" data-end=\"2635\" \/>It may feel less certain.<br class=\"false\" data-start=\"2672\" data-end=\"2675\" \/>But that is where its strength lies.<\/p>\n<p>Because in the moment you take it,<br class=\"false\" data-start=\"2754\" data-end=\"2757\" \/>you realize: you are capable of more than you thought.<br class=\"false\" data-start=\"2800\" data-end=\"2803\" \/>You don\u2019t fall.<br class=\"false\" data-start=\"2819\" data-end=\"2822\" \/>You grow.<\/p>\n<p>And from this experience \u2013 I walked, even though I doubted \u2013 courage is born.<\/p>\n<p>There is not only the danger of daring too much.<br class=\"false\" data-start=\"2976\" data-end=\"2979\" \/>There is also the danger of daring too little.<\/p>\n<p><em>For those who walk, the path unfolds beneath their feet. \ud83d\udc63<\/em><\/p>\n<p class=\"false\">Thank you for your attention!<\/p>\n<p>Thomas<\/p>\n<p class=\"false\"><strong class=\"false\">PS:<\/strong> Whatever you decide \u2013 do it from your own strength.<\/p>\n<p>[\/et_pb_text][et_pb_text _builder_version=&#8221;4.27.4&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221; locked=&#8221;off&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221;]<\/p>\n<p>More recent newsletters can be found <a href=\"https:\/\/humandesign-berufsberatung.de\/en\/newsletter-archive\/\">here<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>[\/et_pb_text][et_pb_text admin_label=&#8221;Fragen und Antworten im Kontext dieses Newsletters&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;4.27.4&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221; locked=&#8221;off&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221;]<\/p>\n<h2>Questions and answers about this newsletter<\/h2>\n<p>[\/et_pb_text][et_pb_accordion _builder_version=&#8221;4.27.4&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;22a21a12-b89f-457a-878a-3b4ad3369275&#8243; rank_math_faq_schema=&#8221;off&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221;][et_pb_accordion_item title=&#8221;How does Human Design help with career decisions?&#8221; open=&#8221;on&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;4.27.4&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221;]<\/p>\n<p>Human Design shows you your inner authority \u2013 in other words, how you make aligned decisions. This way, you can set professional directions in harmony with your own energy, instead of letting your mind or other people influence you. <\/p>\n<p>[\/et_pb_accordion_item][et_pb_accordion_item title=&#8221;What is inner authority in Human Design?&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;4.27.4&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221; open=&#8221;off&#8221;]<\/p>\n<p>Your inner authority is your body\u2019s own decision-making mechanism. It doesn\u2019t give you objectively \u201cright\u201d or \u201cwrong\u201d answers, but it shows you whether something feels aligned and full of energy. <\/p>\n<p>[\/et_pb_accordion_item][et_pb_accordion_item title=&#8221;Why is it risky to make decisions only with the mind?&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;4.27.4&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221; open=&#8221;off&#8221;]<\/p>\n<p>The mind can analyze and plan, but it cannot feel what is truly right for you.<br \/>Decisions made only from the head often lead to insecurity, frustration, or the sense of being driven by external influences (from your own social conditioning). <\/p>\n<p>[\/et_pb_accordion_item][et_pb_accordion_item title=&#8221;Can Human Design help you become more courageous?&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;4.27.4&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221; open=&#8221;off&#8221;]<\/p>\n<p>Yes \u2013 by learning to trust your inner authority, courage grows naturally out of experience.<br \/>You take steps, even when you doubt, and you realize that you are capable of more than you thought. <\/p>\n<p>[\/et_pb_accordion_item][et_pb_accordion_item title=&#8221;What does \u201cknowing only the next step\u201d mean in the Human Design context?&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;4.27.4&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221; open=&#8221;off&#8221;]<\/p>\n<p>Instead of planning the entire path in advance, Human Design helps you focus on the next aligned step. This way, clarity arises step by step \u2013 without the pressure of having to know everything right away. <\/p>\n<p>[\/et_pb_accordion_item][\/et_pb_accordion][\/et_pb_column][\/et_pb_row][\/et_pb_section]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Do you also often find it hard to make decisions? You are not alone. Many of my clients come to me for exactly that reason. Especially when it comes to important career decisions: \u2013 Should I quit my job? \u2013 Should I stay in the secure job? \u2013 Should I take the leap into self-employment? 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