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That happens.
But\u2014as was the case for me\u2014it can lead to a lot of wasted effort.<\/p>\n
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Fortunately, life often gives us a second chance.
This time, I want to do better.<\/p>\n
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Because there is a new situation that I need to share with you.<\/p>\n
Watch out…<\/p>\n
Life has made it clear to me: <\/p>\n <\/p>\n Not gently.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n Two weeks ago, it was time.<\/p>\n I\u2014along with my three girls\u2014drove to the coast. <\/p>\n But the moment we arrived, the last ray of sunshine disappeared. \u2601\ufe0f <\/p>\n You can probably guess.<\/p>\n On the day of our departure. \ud83c\udf1f <\/p>\n <\/p>\n Thanks, dear strategy, for this crystal-clear message.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n Because this wasn\u2019t the first time my North Sea vacation fell through.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n I don\u2019t want pity.<\/p>\n Believe me, I\u2019m not planning any more vacations at the North Sea.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n And not just from the perspective of a content creator like me. Romi, Projector 2\/4<\/strong>, wrote me (and \u2013 what a coincidence \u2013 she\u2019s from the North Sea):<\/strong><\/p>\n Last year, I put on my apron at the hotel and stormed the kitchen \u2013 as a men\u2019s tailor with my own business, of course in style. Things were going well, I was in the flow… until I noticed: Some guests can\u2019t tolerate quite a lot \u2013 except gluten, lactose, sugar, sun, and bad moods. <\/em><\/p>\n I had THE idea how to solve the kitchen chaos with special requests. I presented it in the team meeting. And? Total silence. Three attempts, three discussions later: I was frustrated, went back \u2013 and shortly after, was folding fabrics again. <\/em><\/p>\n Then came Human Design. And I said to myself: \u201cWait for the invitation!<\/strong>\u201d \u2013 I thought: Great, so now I should just sit around and wait for invitations?! <\/em><\/p>\n But lo and behold: a new challenge, a new guest, a new idea\u2014and this time I said to the chef in the most charming way possible:<\/em> BAM. Invitation there. Nod of approval. Go. <\/em> Human Design has made my life a lot easier. And now I like to wait… for the right invitation. <\/em><\/p>\n <\/p>\n <\/p>\n Christine, also a Projector, experienced the following:<\/strong><\/p>\n In the last six months, I began to look at my life through a new lens \u2013 that of Human Design. When I recognized how I am truly \u201cdesigned,\u201d I looked back. And suddenly everything made sense. <\/em><\/p>\n Whenever invitations came my way \u2013 real ones, without pressure \u2013 doors opened, and the flow began. But whenever my willpower, stubbornness, and ego tried to push things through, it cost me huge amounts of energy reserves, frustration \u2013 and in the end, the realization that this path wasn\u2019t meant for me. <\/em><\/p>\n It became especially painful when I thought about a past relationship. A man from Hamburg, met through friends, triggered all my conquest instincts. I fought \u2013 charming, passionate, but driven by ego. It was no longer about closeness, but about pride. The feeling of \u201cwinning.\u201d Even in my environment. <\/em><\/p>\n And although I eventually \u201cwon\u201d him, the price was high. Many obstacles, many signals I ignored at the time \u2013 and a growing feeling that none of it was truly right. <\/em><\/p>\n Today I know: Not everything you can have is truly meant for you. And sometimes the strongest act of self-leadership is not to conquer \u2013 but to wait for an invitation<\/strong> that shows up freely. <\/em><\/p>\n <\/p>\n <\/p>\n Thank you, Romi. Thomas<\/p>\n P.S.:<\/strong> If you\u2019d like to learn more about your personal strategy and many more aspects of Human Design, order my written Human Design Career Analysis<\/a> or sign up for a career reading<\/a> with me.<\/p>\n PPS:<\/strong> I\u2019ve archived my past newsletters. So if you\u2019d like to read through an older newsletter again, you can find it here<\/a>. <\/p>\n [\/et_pb_text][et_pb_text _builder_version=”4.27.4″ _module_preset=”default” locked=”off” global_colors_info=”{}”]<\/p>\n
A North Sea vacation isn’t for me.<\/strong><\/p>\n
But the hard way.<\/p>\n
A cute thatched-roof house, sheep behind the garden, a barn full of toys.<\/p>\n
Perfect, right?<\/p>\n
For an entire week the sun was completely gone. \u2601\ufe0f
And it rained in between. \ud83c\udf27\ufe0f<\/p>\n
And \u2013 surprise! \u2013 the sun came back… <\/p>\n
I just want to show you how strategy can be applied in everyday life.<\/p>\n
Here are two stories from our community:<\/p>\n
\u201cI might have an idea\u2026 if you’d like?\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n
I was allowed to work it out, implement it, present it.<\/em>
And suddenly it felt like I had drunk ten coffees at once. Pure energy! Since then, the team has been working according to my suggestion. <\/em><\/p>\n
Thank you, Christine.
I’m deeply touched. \ud83d\ude4f<\/p>\n![\"\"](\"https:\/\/files.crsend.com\/378000\/378390\/images\/PortraitRund_TW.png\")
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